Though all humans have many things in common, we still differ in multiple aspects. Nevertheless, the same demands are frequently made on different people. At times, the consequences are unfulfilled expectations that in many cases equate to a failure.
Although not everyone wants to be like the other, we regularly also measure the others the same way they do with us. But if you are honest to yourself, it is legit if it takes you just a little longer to go one way, if, in the end, you will get there anyway.